Sunday, May 25, 2014

To Burn Out or to Fade Away Part 1

The phrase it’s better to burn out than fade away has been etched into our collective consciousness ever since Neil Young uttered it in his great song “Hey Hey, My My (Into the Black)”.  Many of our most popular artists/politicians/residents of earth have decided to follow this advice willingly while others have accidently stumbled into martyrdom (some via a ham sandwich).  Today I would like to begin a two part series on burning out and fading away.  Today I will discuss the pros and cons of burning out.


Pro:  Going out a number 1 has numerous perks.  For one, you become a mythical figure like a unicorn or James Dean.  Shrines will be made at your grave.  Your familiar haunts will house weary pilgrims seeking to become one with their savior.  Every story becomes a link in a larger chain about how you were too great for this small, petty world.  We failed you becomes the dominant narrative rather than you did something stupid and died prematurely.  You are no longer the popular creative type/rich heiress/ice cream salesman who went too soon.  You have ascended into the permanence of legend simply due to misreading a warning label.  
Con:  Death.  In my opinion, dying is one of the worst things (if not the worst thing) that can happen in life.  If I had to choose between dying a legend or living as a has-been for 30 years, I’ll take the 30 years of listening to “is that guy still around”.  For me this surely beats being a universally revered dead guy whose DEAD (just to clarify, I have an enormous fear of death). 

Pro:  You never have a fat Elvis stage.  Nobody wants to see their current sequined self juxtaposed next to their suave hip-shaking younger self.  It’s depressing for everybody except for your mortal enemies and possibly your family (if you haven’t ruined that by now you fat has-been).  Dying young ensures that you will stay pretty in the public’s eye (unless they see the autopsy photos) and could get you on the cover of Rolling Stone as a sex symbol (click on this link for more: http://www.rollingstone.com/music/news/hes-hot-hes-sexy-hes-dead-rolling-stones-1981-jim-morrison-cover-story-20110701). 

Con:  Where was all this good will when you were alive?  During your so called “legendary” existence every goddamn action garnered backlash, criticism, and nasty Thomas Nash cartoons that people still don’t fully understand.  Why was it that a premature death was the only way for this extraordinary civil right leader/streetballer/glassmaker to get some proper recognition?  Why if we gave them some credit during their lifetime and didn’t lowball them, they would have achieved the honor of appearing in my column about fading away (coming this Tuesday!).

Pro: People wondering what could have been is a lot better than people asking what the hell happened.  When you die young, you become a symbol of untapped potential.  How would Jimi Hendrix have changed or adapted to the trends of the 70’s?  What would an RFK presidency entailed?  What if the flames didn’t cover Joan of Arc?  These questions are a lot more fun to ask than what ever happened to so and so, they used to mean something. 

Con: Death at an early age.  I cannot overstate this enough.  Being dead is on my list of things I don’t want to do, right next to being in the immediate stages of dying.  So there’s that point again.



Above were a few pros and cons to burning out.  Come Tuesday I will share the pros and cons for fading away.  

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